Foremost entering this lifestyle should only be entered into by person or couple if you have fully considered the following. Everyone involved is in agreement and happy with the decision. Never enter into this lifestyle for the sole purpose of pleasing your partner. No one should be forced into the swing lifestyle. The practice of swinging is not a good idea for anyone wanting to mend a relationship. It is possible that it could do more harm than good to the relationship. Once you have talked about entering the lifestyle there are some things you should now consider. Starting off with an agrement is most benifical to any couple. This agrement would include your expectations and limitations as a new couple entering the life style. Making a list of each and sharing them with your partner is not complicated and an easy way to reach your agreement. Once you have reached your agreement you need to create identites. This is done for your protection and privacy. Remember that this one of the most important rules to the lifestyle. Just as you have created identites other couples have done the same. Always remember that other people in the life style wish to be discrete and private as well. If you want to be a successful swinging couples you must adhere to these golden rules that a swingers lifestyle live by.