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REQUIREMENTS

Foremost entering this lifestyle should only be entered into by person or couple if you have fully considered the following.  Everyone involved is in agreement and happy with the decision.  Never enter into this lifestyle for the sole purpose of pleasing your partner.  No one should be forced into the swing lifestyle. The practice of swinging is not a good idea for anyone wanting to mend a relationship.  It is possible that it could do more harm than good to the relationship. Once you have talked about entering the lifestyle there are some things you should now consider.  Starting off with an agrement is most benifical to any couple.  This agrement would include your expectations and limitations as a new couple entering the life style.  Making a list of each and sharing them with your partner is not complicated and an easy way to reach your agreement. Once you have reached your agreement you need to create identites.  This is done for your protection and privacy.  Remember that this one of the most important rules to the lifestyle.  Just as you have created identites other couples have done the same.  Always remember that other people in the life style wish to be discrete and private as well. If you want to be a successful swinging couples you must adhere to these golden rules that a swingers lifestyle live by.

NO MEANS NO

When someone says no it really means NO. No explanation or alibi needed. You don’t have to be offended when you're turned down and you don’t need to feel guilty by saying NO to an offer. Keep it simple and friendly, that way everyone is happy.

PRACTICE SAFE SEX

Put on that rubber before the action starts. Don’t be offended if asked to wear one or someone wearing it wants to have fun with you. It will be selfish if you don’t want to protect yourself. Remember that you are not only protecting your health but also the health of your partners.

SWING AS A COUPLE

If you are a swinging couple then act like a couple. This means that you have to come and leave as one. You are a package, that is why you need to have one single account as a couple when you are on an online swinging website. Work as a team . Don’t leave your partner behind. This creates a trust and strong bond between you two. Remember that you are swinging to improve your relationship.

BE ON TIME

Notify the host if you will be late or you can’t come. Imagine how you will feel or how the other’s would feel if you arrive on a swinging party while everyone is already on a full swing? Awkward! So don’t be late!

RESPOND TO INVITATIONS

Whether you are attending a swinging party or not you should respond to the invitation to either confirm or deny the invitation. It’s also courteous to respond to invitations. Just remember the hard work made preparing the party. The host must know if you are coming or not so arrangements and preparations can be done. Most members would like to know who is coming, unless it’s a meet and fuck kind of swinging party.

DON'T SHOW UP UNINVITED

You will never be let in anyway so why bother? These are closed door parties that is why it’s RSVP Invitation only.

TICKETS ARE A BIG NO-NO

Taking a ticket means turning up into a swinging party with someone who is not really into it. Most swinging parties are exclusive to couples only. If you are single then be sure that you are with someone who is up for some swinging. This is only accepted on special circumstance and the host must know about your arrangement.

BE FRIENDLY

Be courteous, understanding and sensible. Act like how you like others to act towards you. This is a simple rule for social courtesy.

AVOID ASKING PERSONAL QUESTIONS

This also means that you don’t need to give out too many personal details. Remember that these people are here for one thing only, to swing. Not to get involved personally nor emotionally other than to their husbands and wives.

DON'T BE AFRAID TO SAY NO

If you don’t like it then say no, don’t give an explanation or alibi. Don’t feel obliged to play with anyone, even with the host. Just decline the offer courteously. This is just a reiteration of our first golden rule.

DON'T INSIST

Again following the golden rule, a No mean No, so don’t be pushy. If you have been turned down respect it and just shrug it off your shoulder.

DRESSING UP

When it comes to deciding what to wear just put on something casual and that you are comfortable with. Clarify with the host if robes are provided. Sometimes when you do the swinging party inside a hotel room robes and other personal amenities are provided.

KEEP VALUABLES TO A MINIMUM

Don’t bring in too many valuables like cash and jewelry. Not saying that you can’t trust the host or anyone there, but it will be embarrassing for you and for others if you lost them.

MONITOR ALCOHOL CONSUMPTION

Booze might be overflowing during a swinging party and the food may be great, but you are there to swing, not drink. You need to be able to stand and perform when the real action starts, so don’t get drunk.

NO DRUGS

We mean illegal drugs! It does not mean that Viagra and Cialis are also prohibited.

MAINTAIN GOOD HYGIENE

This is a must for everyone. A poor personal hygiene is a turn off.

ENJOY AND HAVE FUN

After all that is what the party is for. When you are living a swingers lifestyle, be sure that you are enjoying it. If you aren't enjoying it, drop it.

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